Faith Christian Fellowship
Nursing Home Ministry Spreads Cheer by Jill Darling
    Nursing home patients can tend to live out the latter years of their lives feeling lonely and forgotten, especially around Christmas time. Their children and grandchildren may be consumed with their own busy schedules or live too far away for routine visits. Some are uncomfortable seeing their parent in a debilitating condition and prefer not to visit.
    Ed and Melva Thoman, along with Thelma Janssen, of Faith Christian Fellowship (FCF) in Apalachin set out to change that by making a personal commitment to those who are often neglected. For the past fourteen years, they have revitalized the demeanor of many nursing home residents. It all started in 1985 when the church began having monthly services for residents of the Vestal Nursing Home. Eventually, Ed and Melva co-ordinated the ministry and added a monthly service at Riverview Manor in Owego.
 

       Various FCF members have participated in the ministry over the years. Current additional members of the group are the Thomans' son, Joe, and Glenn and Kathy Williams of Apalachin. Residents look forward to gathering in the spacious room to greet their long-standing friends from FCF. Ed, with his mild-mannered, country style, starts the informal service by playing lively praise music on the guitar. "People clap, stomp their feet, and one lady even gets up and dances," according to Mel. "Then more quiet worshipful songs are sung. Before long, the peaceful presence of God can be felt in the room," she adds.

       Communion is available for those who desire to partake. Individual prayer is also offered. Amelia had worn a leg brace for months and had the group pray for her leg to heal. On their next visit, she excitedly told the Thomans that the brace she thought would be on forever had been removed.

       Another answer to prayer came from Beverly who had pain and swelling in her leg. Gradually, the swelling went down and the pain was gone. She was grateful to God for her healing, said Mel. One of the most frequent and heart-wrenching requests is when residents pray, amidst tears, for their family members to come and visit or write to them.

       Not only are residents inspired by the church's ministry but the opposite holds true. According to Ed, Nathan Jump, who died recently at the age of 98, was always positive. "You could sense the peace and joy of the Lord within. He really had a heart for soul-winning. At his age--it was just marvelous!" Ed said. "Like it says in Proverbs 27:17, 'As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of a friend.' That's what Nathan did for me," he continued. 

       Ed developed such a close relationship with one resident, Art, that he was asked to conduct his funeral after he died. Ed said he felt honored to do so and commented, "It's so sad when they die because you've known them for so long--they become a part of you."

       Throughout the year, nursing home ministry members contribute their own money toward a fund in order to make up fruit baskets to give to the residents at Christmas time. For a few, it may be the only gift they will receive over the holidays. The residents are always grateful. 

       Each year Riverview Manor hosts a special recognition day for those who contribute in some way to the facility. Ed and Melva and the nursing home ministry from FCF receive a framed certificate of appreciation for their faithful efforts. They will continue to bring friendship and a sense of family to nursing home residents as they genuinely touch the hearts of the people with God's love.



Apalachin Community Press, December 1999