Are Your Children Safe on the Internet?

Sheriff Roger Besser Recommends Adopting Safety Measures

Internet usage is clearly becoming a standard part of American life. In fact, according to a recent survey conducted by Family PC magazine, families now spend an average of 14 hours a week online. Although surfing the 'Net can be a fun, constructive activity for families, it is not without some element of risk. With this in mind, Sheriff Besser urges parents to exercise caution when it comes to the content of Internet sites viewed by children, especially teenagers.

The Internet contains a multitude of education information, as well as sites devoted to music, hobbies, and other forms of family-friendly entertainment. However, there are also some areas that should be avoided - particularly those that are suggestive, obscene, threatening, or that make users feel uncomfortable.

Every day, more people are using the Internet. However, there are a lot of parents who know very little about browsing the Web. It is particularly important for these parents to talk to their children about what they are doing while online, and learn as much as they can about the Internet. Knowledge will enable them to take advantage of the medium's benefits, while at the same time, recognizing the dangers that pose a threat to their children's safety.

Lately, the media spotlight has focused on the negative aspects of Internet usage. However, on a daily basis, millions of children safely use the Internet. The most effective way for parents to keep their family out of harms' way is to explain the potential dangers of the Internet and establish usage guidelines. The New York State Sheriffs' Association offers a few basic rules for children an teenagers to help minimize potential trouble

Always keep information about your identity private. This includes name, home address, telephone numbers, and especially photos.

Never accept gifts. To receive a gift would probably require giving out an address or meeting in person

If you come across information or get into a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell your parents immediately and report it to your Internet service provider.

Exercise caution and get to know your online friends just as you would other friends you initially meet in person

Never arrange a face-to-face meeting without telling your parents. If your parents give you their permission to meet, do so during the daytime in a public meeting place. It is important to remember that people who say they are one thing online, may turn out to be someone totally different in person.

If you receive an e-mail from someone you don't know, don't respond. By responding you are verifying that you have a valid e-mail address.

Be very suspicious of anyone you meet online who tries to turn you against your parents. They may have a hidden agenda.

While in a chat room, it is a good idea for females to choose a gender-neutral name. This could prevent sexual harassment.